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2022.01.21 14:20 PowerForce2021 Uncharted Legacy of Thieves Collection – Launch Trailer
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2022.01.21 14:20 Pristine-Public-1300 US Secy of State Blinken, Russian FM Lavrov to hold talks to defuse tensions between Russia, Ukraine
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2022.01.21 14:20 NargoPezzo My GF [F21] affirms to have cheated on me [M22] while drunk. I suspect she could have been raped and she's in denial of it.
I'm sorry if this post doesn't suit the subreddit. I wanted to post it on relationships but apparently asking for a point of view is against the rules of the subreddit.
I've been in here for the last few months and this subreddit helped me a lot, so i'll post it in here too.
For context: my gf and I are both Italians. Sorry for any English errors but I find it pretty difficult to write everything that happened and to express my feelings.
I had a 2 years relationship with this girl and it was a very healthy, stable, fun and simple relationship. Lot of trust and plans for the future. We both drinked alcohol regularly and sometimes got drunk when we were apart but nothing much, just normal. We both loved each other so much and everything was going so well.
One day she talks to me of the idea of going to Erasmus for 6 months and study abroad in Spain. She says that she always dreamed of doing it. I obviously didn’t like the idea of a LDR for 6 months but seeing her so happy and so convinced about it and everything in the relationship was going so well I thought “well why not”. So September 1st I drive her to the airport, we both shred a tear and she leaves for Santiago de Compostela.
First two weeks she almost regretted it. She was feeling lonely and had a lot of trouble with all the “bureaucracy” of the Erasmus Program and University. She always cried during calls and I was there for her and I told her that when she started knowing friends and such it would have been better.
She starts hanging out with different groups, a group of Spanish people and a group of Italian people. She starts doing new things as Surf or Trekking with the ESN program and I’m happy to see that she is doing good now. We both decide that I would have visited her on November, so I book a flight and we book an hotel for 3 days at Porto for our anniversary.
One day she put a photo of us as a wallpaper of the phone and sent me a screenshot of it. I obviously appreciated it. But that week something felt strange, but I didn’t notice it because I had a lot to do and to study. We did less video calls. We talked less. ( I know what you’re thinking: “and here we gooooo...”)
October 7th she confessed me that she cheated on me with an Italian guy. She didn’t have feelings for him. She didn’t even like him. This guy kept pressing her and she refused for almost 12 hrs, telling she was in a relationship. Then the night she was drunk, he accompanied her at her house (she told me she didn’t want him to do it, but I guess she was too drunk to impose herself), he entered her house (again, she told him not too, but I guess she was not in the best conditions of taking decisions). And then obviously it happened. She didn’t give me an explanation of why. She simply said “I let him do anything and I don’t know why”. She was completely passive all the time. He undressed her and all. She said that it was horrible and didn’t feel or like anything about it, didn’t get excited or anything.
Now, my main problem with all of the above, is that it happened exactly 3 times, in 3 different nights. The same exact pattern repeated for the span of that week.
I asked her why she didn’t tell me after the first time. And this is the most complicated part of all things. Even thought she remembered it vividly, she thought like it was all a “dream”. She didn’t give me a clear explanation of this. All I can say is that I feel she was being honest, because she really felt different that week and after she confessed me she returned the girl I always knew so I don’t think she was trying to hide it from me. She said that she felt like she was living in a bubble, like she wasn’t herself and all kind of stuff, I guess suddenly starting living in another country and being alone makes you feel this way but I really don’t know. I’m mainly posting because maybe someone felt the same way.
She cried a lot, and asked me to forgive her. She was clearly shocked of what she did.
I obviously raged at her and tell her that we were done. Gone No Contact for a month. Obviously she continued writing to me that she missed me and she was sorry for what happened but I didn’t reply. After someday I started thinking about what happened with a clearer mind and talking with my family and friends for hearing what they thought about it. She was not obviously “that type of girl”. And everyone that know her told me the same thing, her family and her friends too. I thinked about a drug, but she didn’t have any “blackout” and she remembered clearly everything, so I don’t think that’s the case, and I don’t know if it would have been better or worse.
So in November I reached back to her. She was really happy about it. She told me that she cut off all the people that she met there. She didn’t go to a single party. She didn’t drink anything. She just stayed at home studying, watching Netflix, or going for a walk. Not because she felt that I needed proof of her words but because she was clearly scared of what happened and didn’t want it to happen again. She developed healthier habits and I appreciated that a lot, truly proving that she wanted to change for the better. And she did to this day. I decided that I would have tried to reconcile with her.
For the past months we had lows and ups. We do videocalls 24/7 and we share a lot of things that we do during the day. She returned for Christmas and we saw each other again, had a ton of good sex. She feels extremely happy. And so I am, just with a few doubts. I’m not going all-in. I’m testing waters. I’m not scared of dumping her and start a new relationship, or to stay alone for sometime. I want to take my time and do things slowly, and I’m reconciling because for now I feel that it’s what I want.
From posting this story to relationships, a lot of people commented me that it sounds likerape. I asked her before if it was the case but she apparently thinks not. But i don't know anything about rape and denial of it/trauma and i don't know if this can be the case. I'll do my own research in the meantime.
I’ll love to hear your opinion on what happened. So feel free to write anything you want, good or bad that it is. Just be direct. 😊
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2022.01.21 14:20 Sage0324 Clogged Femoral Pores on Beardie?
I got this guy as an adult from someone & cant tell if these are clogged or not? I’m letting him soak and plan to take him to the vet soon for a checkup, but any advice for now is appreciated :)
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2022.01.21 14:20 dbc13543 Most people will fail at every romantic relationship they ever have. The very successful will have all fail but one.
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2022.01.21 14:20 ploverloverjr Customised Form/Denied Access
One of our employees went and customised a form they were using, and then after signing out and signing back in again, they no longer have access to that form.
I suspect it is a permission issue with their role, but since they can't access the form anymore, I can't see what they have changed. Is there anyway to reset a user's changes to the default settings?
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2022.01.21 14:20 Haha_1234567 How to naturally increase my Testosterone and be more "manly"?
This is not meant to hurt or make anyone feel bad. It's just about me.
So, I(early 20's) recently got a job and I had to talk to strangers on the phone today in order to setup my WFH office(bank, IT dept., etc.). I talked to around 5 people and every fucking one of them called me "Ma'am". I am a Man and don't want to be addressed as a Woman. I almost cried because of this. I don't know if this is coming off in the wrong way but, it honestly felt very very heart wrenching when society thinks that I am not a Man. I have OCD and Anxiety too and they already don't let me function as a normal Human Being and I just felt crushed when all that happened today.
Yes, my voice most probably feels like that of a Woman but, how the fuck should I change it or what can I actually do about it?
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2022.01.21 14:20 somegingerdude739 Fellas, the boom is back, either that or weimar inflation
My mam decided to get me a roll (butter and chicken because she xouldnt remember what else i got) while she was getting her coffee.
The fucker cost €9.75
Shook me to the core ngl. Its wasnt spar or centra but fucking still
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